Mervyn Hoe: My Daily Happenings

Well today was Saturday and I'm really very glad that my son was able to sleep with me in the living room for two straight nights in a row. Ha. I'm really proud of him. Because we are trying our best to night wean for him and yes, it's getting better and better. And the good news is that he is knocking to bed slightly earlier already! I have been thinking actually. Seeing happy families and seeing happy married couples. Families certainly bring lots of joys and also at tough times. From Eve's grandma, nothing cannot be impossible to be done. Can you believe a 87 year old could say this? I'm totally impressed. She has helped out in small and big ways in our house and it's certainly commendable. Helped us in cooking and washing dishes and also chores like sewing and ironing clothes. She is really helpful and she had 7children. How come it seems like in the past, having many children seemed easy? And now, we simply complain when we have one? And some even don...

Hi All Guess what? Today after my Sunday Service, I visited my grandma. I am shocked. Speechless. Really! I honestly find that I have not been doing a good grandson for my grandma. She is now getting quieter and quieter and when I was on the same dining table with her, my heart just broke and that my appetite on the dining table was stolen away by her actions. It seems to me that she has no energy to eat, not able to lift properly her utensils. And the sight really saddens me. I find that I should spend more time with her and that even though I only spoke simple words like "Have you eaten?", "Is the food nice?", "Are you hungry?", I believe that most of the time, no one actually spoke to her. And that really makes me feel that if I don't visit her anymore, there won't be much chance coz no one knows what will happen in the future. AH! Dunno what to type le... Bye